What Do I Say When They Say; God Hardened Pharaoh’s Heart?

God Hardened Pharaoh’s Heart
For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, “For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I may show My power in you, and that My name may be declared in all the earth.” (Rom 9:17)

This objection sounds like this; Calvinists might say that Pharaoh’s hardening is evidence of predestination separate from free will:

“God hardened Pharaoh’s heart to display His sovereign power, showing that human will is subject to His eternal decree.”

“Pharaoh’s hardening proves that God chooses whom to have mercy on and whom to harden, independent of human action.”

“God raised Pharaoh up to be a vessel of wrath, predestined to resist Him, to magnify divine glory.”

“Pharaoh had no free will to resist God’s hardening, as his rebellion was ordained to serve God’s redemptive plan.”

At the end of the day, this error makes God out to be a monster, and that He is a respecter of persons. “Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons.” (Acts 9:34)

How can we answer this objection?
We Harden Our Own Hearts

The Bible repeatedly warns against hardening our hearts, emphasizing that this is a choice we make by disregarding God’s word. Hebrews 3:15 urges, “To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts, as in the provocation.” Similarly, Hebrews 4:7 echoes, “To day, after so long a time; as it is said, To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts.” These verses, rooted in Psalm 95:7–8, recall Israel’s rebellion in the wilderness, where they hardened their hearts by refusing to trust God. Proverbs 28:14 warns, “He that hardeneth his heart shall fall into mischief,” while Zechariah 7:12 describes those who “made their hearts as an adamant stone, lest they should hear the law.” When we ignore God, we actively choose to harden our hearts, shutting out God’s truth. The responsibility lies with us, not with God overriding our will.

God Allows Rebellion to Accomplish His Purpose
God permitted Pharaoh to exalt himself in pride, using his defiance to demonstrate His power. Exodus 7:3–5 declares, “I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, and multiply my signs… that the Egyptians may know that I am the Lord.” Similarly, Exodus 10:1–2 explains that God hardened Pharaoh’s heart “that ye may tell in the hearing of thy son… what I have wrought in Egypt.” Exodus 14:4 adds, “I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, and he will pursue them, and I will get glory over Pharaoh.” This purpose is echoed in Romans 9:17: “For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee.” Like Judas, chosen yet betraying Jesus (John 6:70–71: “Have not I chosen you twelve, and one of you is a devil?”), Pharaoh’s rebellion serves God’s plan without excusing his guilt. God allows human pride to run its course, turning it to His glory.

Rebellion Is to Harden Our Own Heart
Pharaoh’s story vividly illustrates this truth. In Exodus 5:2, he defiantly declares, “Who is the Lord, that I should obey his voice and let Israel go? I do not know the Lord.” This rejection of God’s authority marks the beginning of his heart’s hardening. The Bible shows Pharaoh repeatedly choosing to disregard God’s word through Moses. In Exodus 7:13, after Aaron’s staff becomes a serpent, “Pharaoh’s heart was hardened, and he did not listen to them.” Again, in Exodus 8:15, after the plague of frogs, “he hardened his heart and would not listen to them.” These passages highlight Pharaoh’s active role in hardening his heart by failing to regard God’s signs and commands.

Yet, God’s sovereignty is also at work. Exodus 4:21 states, “I will harden his heart, so that he will not let the people go,” and Exodus 9:12 confirms, “The Lord hardened the heart of Pharaoh.” Does this mean God forced Pharaoh to sin? No. The text consistently shows Pharaoh’s rebellion preceding God’s hardening, as in Exodus 9:27, where Pharaoh admits, “I have sinned this time: the Lord is righteous, and I and my people are in the wrong.” God does not cause Pharaoh’s sin but uses his rebellion to fulfill divine purposes, as Exodus 10:1 explains: “I have hardened his heart… that I may show these signs of mine among them.” Pharaoh remains accountable for his choices, while God sovereignly works through them.

“The Devil Made Me Do It”?
Some might claim, like the old saying, “The devil made me do it,” to shift blame for their sin. But Scripture places responsibility squarely on us. Pharaoh’s pride in Exodus 5:2 mirrors the rebellion of Israel in Judges 17:6 and 21:25: “Every man did that which was right in his own eyes.” This self-rule leads to a hardened heart. James 1:14–15 clarifies, “Every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust… when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin.” Our deceitful hearts (Jeremiah 17:9: “The heart is deceitful above all things”) and evil thoughts (Mark 7:21–22: “From within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts… pride”) drive rebellion, not God or the devil. Like Pharaoh, we harden our hearts when we prioritize our own desires over God’s truth.

We are to Soften Our Hearts by God’s word.
The hardening of Pharaoh’s heart teaches us a profound lesson: We harden our hearts by disregarding God’s word, but God uses even our rebellion to fulfill His purposes. The Bible warns us to choose differently. Hebrews 3:15 pleads, “To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts.” Unlike Pharaoh, who persisted in pride, we must repent and seek a soft heart, as David prayed in Psalm 51:10: “Create in me a clean heart, O God.” Have you ignored God’s voice through Scripture? Choose to obey, for the responsibility to heed the Gospel call is ours.

Agape

Moses Chose

When we look back at Moses, we see a man standing at the crossroads of history, faith, and destiny. He didn’t just stumble into leadership or into God’s favor. No sir, he made some mighty choices—five monumental ones that shaped the course of Israel’s future. It’s worth asking ourselves: What motivated Moses to choose the harder road? What lessons can we glean from his resolve?

1. The Motivation of Moses

Acts 7:25 tells us Moses had a sense of destiny, that he “supposed his brethren would have understood how that God by his hand would deliver them.” Hebrews 11:24-25 sheds more light on this by saying, “By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter; choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season.”

Moses wasn’t motivated by the luxury and ease that the Egyptian palace offered. No, he had a fire burning within him that Pharaoh’s wealth and influence couldn’t extinguish. Moses saw his people suffering, and rather than turning a blind eye, he chose to embrace their pain as his own. There’s something noble in that, isn’t there? Like a wise man once said, “It’s not what you stand on that defines you, but what you stand for.”

2. Oppression: Choosing Affliction Over Comfort

Hebrews 11:25 continues by showing that Moses chose “to suffer affliction with the people of God.” Think about that for a moment. This man had it all—prestige, power, privilege—but he willingly stepped away from the trappings of luxury to join the oppressed. Imagine leaving behind the Egyptian courts, not because you had to, but because you chose to.

Now, that’s the kind of conviction that echoes through history. We know that when oppression knocks at the door, it’s not always convenient to answer. But Moses didn’t care about convenience. He knew his place was with God’s people, not lounging in the pleasures of the palace.

3. Stood Against Pharaoh: Not a Slave, But a Servant of the Most High

When Moses went before Pharaoh, he wasn’t some lowly slave groveling for mercy. No, he stood tall as a servant of the God Most High, with the authority of heaven behind him. Exodus 5:20-23 tells us how the elders of Israel turned against Moses after Pharaoh made their labor even harder. Imagine that! He’s trying to lead his people to freedom, and the very folks he’s trying to help turn on him. If that ain’t a leadership test, I don’t know what is.

But Moses pressed on. He knew that he wasn’t doing this for himself or for the approval of man. He was on God’s mission, and that’s a lesson for us all. When the road gets rough, and even those closest to us lose faith, we’ve got to stand firm and remember who we serve.

4. Exposed as Exodus Leader: Challenges on Every Side

Leadership exposed Moses. Exodus 14:11-14 shows the people complaining when they saw no way out as Pharaoh’s army bore down on them at the Red Sea. Then, in Exodus 15:24, they grumbled again, this time over a lack of water. And if that wasn’t enough, they complained in Exodus 16:1-3 when there was no bread.

Now, it’s easy to criticize when you’re on the sidelines, but Moses was in the thick of it. No one said leading God’s people was going to be easy. It’s like that old saying: “Everybody wants to be a leader until it’s time to make decisions.” Moses made tough decisions, and though the people grumbled, God delivered—again and again.

5. Stood With Christ

Moses’ ultimate vindication came long after his earthly life ended. Mark 9:4 tells us that Moses stood with Christ on the Mount of Transfiguration. Think about that! After all the struggles, complaints, and hardships, Moses stood in glory with the Savior of the world.

And when Moses died, God Himself buried him (Deuteronomy 34:5-6). Now, if you ask me, there’s no better way to go than to have God take care of your final resting place.

What Do You Think of His Choice Now?

Looking back, I’d say Moses made the right choice, wouldn’t you? He didn’t choose comfort, wealth, or the easy road. He chose faith, suffering, and ultimately, the eternal reward of standing with Christ. Moses showed us that it’s not the temporary pleasures of this world that define our legacy, but the eternal decisions we make in the service of God.

So, when we face our own crossroads, let’s remember Moses.

Agape,

Spencer