JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS

Last week, people took polar-opposite positions on an artist’s performance in a language neither of them understood. What stood out to this author wasn’t so much the controversy, but that folks were arguing over facts neither side had.

One fellow made a divisive Facebook post, then an hour later retracted it after hearing “the rest of the story.”

It reminded me of a warning written in the ancient wisdom literature about taking such impetuous and rash actions based on half (or less) of the facts. “He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.” (Proverbs 18:13)

The scriptures reveal many such rash judgments people have made based on little to no facts.

A clear biblical example appears in the confusion surrounding Jesus’ birthplace. Many in His day assumed He was merely from Nazareth in Galilee, prompting Nathanael to ask skeptically, “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?” (John 1:46). This prejudice against the insignificant village blinded him to Jesus’ true identity.

Similarly, in John 7, crowds and religious leaders debated whether Jesus could be the Messiah, arguing, “Will the Christ come out of Galilee? Has not the Scripture said that the Christ comes from the seed of David and from Bethlehem?” (John 7:41-42). They rejected Him because they believed He originated in Galilee, unaware He was born in Bethlehem fulfilling prophecy (Micah 5:2; Luke 2). Their hasty dismissal ignored the full story. Premature conclusions often stem from prejudice, incomplete information, or arrogance, leading people to dismiss truth.

Even Nicodemus faced mockery when defending fair process: “Does our law judge a man without first giving him a hearing?” (John 7:51), only to be scorned as possibly Galilean himself (v. 52). These instances show how answering, or rejecting a person before hearing the complete matter fosters error, division, and overlooked details. It’s folly to answer a matter before hearing it.

It’s a broken record… Jumping to conclusions about people close to us (spouses, children, friends, or family) can lead to contempt and have lasting effects. When we assume (impugn) motives, judge character, or assign blame without hearing “the rest of the story,” we violate the wisdom of Proverbs 18:13. These snap judgments or assumptions usually stay internal at first: unvoiced suspicions, lingering doubts, or private resentments, but they seldom remain hidden. They leak out in changes in tone, avoidance, passive-aggressive actions, overreactions, and gossip. The affected person senses something’s wrong but doesn’t know what.

Humble recognition that we may not have all the facts is the first step. Giving folks the benefit of the doubt can do wonders. Gratitude and Prayer also helps.

Agape

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